johns journal

1. Expectations. Set yourself up for success by getting a firm grasp on how much you communicate, roughly when, and by what means. I cannot tell you how much this eliminates useless quibbling during a potentially stressful time. Figure out what kind of communication works best for both of you. My …

First, let me start by saying this military home we are living in is a complete gift. An answered prayer for me, set in a wonderful neighborhood overlooking a canyon in San Diego. And did I mention the full basketball court in the backyard. Yes, yes, yes and thank you again Lord.
It came complete …

It sure is sunny here in San Diego, so that means a couple things for me....happiness and sun protection. Grabbing hats is the easiest, quickest and stylish way for me to achieve even greater sun protection. Here are my favorites!




From urban outfitters and free people!

The patio idea I originally posted over here is great in terms of a typical outside dining space. But we kinda live outside and I'm getting old, which means I need a comfortable seat! I think this outdoor couch via ikea is just the ticket; so I'm trading the dining table for a couch! Will …